Friday, July 5, 2013

With Passion and Wild Regret


Letter from Burton to Taylor after she left him (the first time). Stolen from the always wonderful, Letters Of Note:

June 25, 1973

So My Lumps,

You're off, by God!

I can barely believe it since I am so unaccustomed to anybody leaving me. But reflectively I wonder why nobody did so before. All I care about—honest to God—is that you are happy and I don't much care who you'll find happiness with. I mean as long as he's a friendly bloke and treats you nice and kind. If he doesn't I'll come at him with a hammer and clinker. God's eye may be on the sparrow but my eye will always be on you. Never forget your strange virtues. Never forget that underneath that veneer of raucous language is a remarkable and puritanical LADY. I am a smashing bore and why you've stuck by me so long is an indication of your loyalty. I shall miss you with passion and wild regret.

You may rest assured that I will not have affairs with any other female. I shall gloom a lot and stare morosely into unimaginable distances and act a bit—probably on the stage—to keep me in booze and butter, but chiefly and above all I shall write. Not about you, I hasten to add. No Millerinski Me, with a double M. There are many other and ludicrous and human comedies to constitute my shroud.

I'll leave it to you to announce the parting of the ways while I shall never say or write one word except this valedictory note to you. Try and look after yourself. Much love. Don't forget that you are probably the greatest actress in the world. I wish I could borrow a minute portion of your passion and commitment, but there you are—cold is cold as ice is ice.

8 comments:

  1. Never forget your strange virtues.

    The mind boggles.

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  2. Oh Fay - thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for posting this! I think you remember that I was a big fan of 'Liz & Dick'. They had such a romantic, tempestuous love affair and they were both wonderful actors. As I read the letter I heard Burton's voice saying the words. What a man he was!

    And a very interesting blog, I just added it to my favorites.

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    1. I do remember florrie, you were kind enough to send me the book!

      Tempestuous is definitely the word to describe their relationship(s). Today's so called celebrities have no fucking idea.

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    2. But Brad is talking "wedding." Weren't they married 27 times already? And how about Jen? I thought she was married as well. She must be an elephant -- I think she has been pregnant for the past 9 years. And the Karashians?

      Who really gives a rip?

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  3. The writing is so superb it brings tears to the eyes. What a remarkable letter!

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  4. I guess I'm not Richard Burton because I just don't have the juice to employ his salutation...

    So My Lumps,

    My Lumps. My Lumps? Really, that shit works for you, bro?

    [Shade of Richard Burton: Dude, I'm not your bro']

    You think today he'd be texting "SML" as an abbreviation?

    Honestly I read this and I can't get this horrible song out of my head.

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